Double Journey

I was driving in my car when I heard an ad for debt consolidation. These ads are everywhere, so it must be pretty good business. Anyway, something I heard on the radio really struck a nerve with me. To paraphrase the commercial it basically stated, “Have too much Credit Card Debt? Don’t you realize that the credit card companies are after you by charging you high interest rates? It’s not your fault. Blame the big bad credit card companies who are out to get you!”

Now I won’t dispute the fact that credit card companies are trying to make a lot of money off of you. After all, they are a business. However, this commercial really just bothered me. Seriously folks, when you have credit card debt, you really have nobody to blame for yourself. There are times where there is a legitimate emergency, and you have to use credit to get out of it. But these are few and far between. Even in these cases, I would argue it is still YOUR fault if you have EVER purchased something you didn’t need on a credit card and left a balance because you should have been saving the money to put into an emergency fund in the first place.

So instead of blaming other people for your problem, why don’t you stop buying things you can’t afford? Don’t let the credit card companies charge you interest in the first place. Be in control of your own finances, and you will be in control of your own destiny. I know it can be easier to just point the finger of blame at someone else. But when you point that finger back at yourself, you will find that more often than not, accepting responsibility for your own mistakes will be far more productive.

A while ago I took a position in some Natural Gas drillers.  Specifically Grey Wolf and Nabors.  I never really planned on owning them long term.  I just took positions because I thought I wanted a few different energy plays and so I branched out into an area I wasn’t totally comfortable with (mistake #1).

I actually did OK on these at first, and saw some good gains.  As I was in this for a trade, I should have gotten out, but I didn’t.  Soon after, the price of Natural gas spiked down and never recovered.  Since I didn’t have a lot of money invested in either position, I didn’t really worry about it.   I figured that it was OK and that it would eventually come back.  So I held.  Held like a chump.

I should have just gotten out of the position when it reversed.  I made a classic mistake that so many of us make; I let a trade become an investment.  I held on to the position WAY too long in the hopes that it would eventually come back.  Hope, it’s the one case where it really isn’t a very good thing to had.  I kept telling myself that energy was a great story and it would continue to be so (it is, but this wasn’t the way I should have or wanted to play it).  I kept coming up with excuses to keep the stock.  But that was unnecessary.  It was a trade.  Trades don’t have reasons, only investments do.

I finally got out of the positions this week.  I did it to take the capital loss and offset some capital gains I have but it should have never come to this.