Double Journey

I am an interviewer for Princeton University.  They use their alumni network to reach out to students and get to understand the person behind the application.  I’ve stated before in my post on how to get into an Ivy League, that an interview won’t make or break you.  It really is just one of those things that the admission council uses to confirm all the other things on your application.  That being said, it certainly wouldn’t hurt you to do well in your interview and there are a few things you can do to have a bad one.  So here are some tips for your interview

1.  Know why you want to go to the school - Yes, everyone wants to go to the best school, but why specifically the school you are interviewing with?  If you just want to be around smart people, you can go to any of the Ivy Leagues.  Know something about the school that is specific to it and would be great for you.  Do some reasearch, use the internet.  It isn’t hard to come prepared.
2. Have goals - You don’t have to know what you want to do for the rest of your life, but you should have some idea about what you want to do and how attending the college of your choice can help you get there.
3. Know why you stand out - Everyone has great grades and test scores.  Be able to articulate why you are different from the crowd.
4. Talk with passion - people love to here othes talk with passion about the things they love.  If you love playing the oboe, show it!
5. Demonstrate a strong desire to go to the school - Alumni who interview for their school feel very passionately about their school and have a lot of pride.  They do it strictly on a volunteer basis and it is often inconvenient for them.  They want to see people who will love their school as much as they do, so show some enthusiasm.
6. Have a conversation - don’t let it be one sided.  Ask lots of questions.  People love to hear themselves talk.  Asking questions shows interest (which helps with the ones above).  When asked a question about something, respond, and think about how you can ask a question right back.  This creates good conversation and a natural flow.

Other than that, relax.  Like I said, the interview really isn’t that important.

Harvard announced today that it would ease the burden that Middle-class families would have to bear to send their kids to the second-best university on the planet.  I have always stated that Ivy League schools are actually more affordable than many other universities.  They just have a ton of money to help those who genuinely need it.

By the time I got to college, my family was relatively poor.  I came from a single family parent where my mom was making under 30K a year.  When choosing colleges, I did not let cost factor into the equation because I believed that a good education from the right school was worth it at almost any price.  What I discovered was that these schools had fantastic need-based financial aid.

I left Princeton (the best university in the world) with about $17,000 in debt (all of which is already paid off). If I had actually been about two years younger, I would have left with $0 in debt as Princeton has switched all it’s need based financial aids to grants rather than loans.   The last two years I attended the university, my family paid $0 to the university.  I only paid  my fees to my eating club.

I actually talked to several people in my high school who did not apply to some of the better schools because they were not sure how they would afford a private school tuition.  I wish they had known how affordable it really can be.  So for all those of you who find this page and are wondering if you should apply my advice to you is this.  APPLY!  Worry about how you will get the money later.  The worse thing that could happen is that somehow you might not be able to afford and you won’t go, but you will never know unless you try.

OK, so one of the keys to having a great corporate pedigree is to have attended and Ivy League School (And by Ivy League I do mean any of the top-tier national schools). For most people, it is too late to change this. There is always the option of going to get a graduate degree at a top-tier university, but for most people in the working world, that just isn’t going to happen. This is for all the young people who are wondering just how I did it and what advice I may have. Remember my post about compound interest? The point of that post was to emphasize how doing a little bit now, can pay big rewards in the future. This is my view on how important it is to do well at an early age to get into the right school.

I want to be very clear about this point before I move forward. You do not need an Ivy League degree to get a good job or to be successful. Getting an Ivy League degree does not guarantee success. What it does do is present a signal to potential employers is that somehow, someway, you made it through a very selective process. This is an important consideration in many managers hiring process. My alma-mater accepts around 10% of all applicants. And this is 10% of an already very selective group. It reminds me of that Seinfeld episode where George is able to meet beautiful women because he has a picture of a model who is supposedly his dead fiancee. The women accept him because he has already been selected by another beautiful woman.

Every time I go into a job interview, at some point someone says to me, “Obviously you are smart, you went to Princeton…” This is an important point. By default I am assumed smart. I got accepted to Princeton more than a dozen years ago, and yet it still works is paying dividends for me. It won’t get me the job by itself, but it at least allows me to get my foot in the door. It’s up to me to shove my way through.

So what do I know about getting into an Ivy League School? Well I got into several, I still do interviews for Princeton, and I actually had a college friend on the admissions board for a while. So what’s the secret? Here it is, there isn’t any. I can assure you that there is no magic formula for getting into the best schools. Each and every application is read, and read by multiple people. What catches the eye of one, may not catch the eye of another. That being said, here are the basics in order of what I believe is important.

Get good grades in the hardest classes. I want to emphasize hardest, because A’s in classes that aren’t challenging just don’t carry as much weight. You don’t have to get straight A’s (I didn’t. Got a handful of B’s) and you don’t have to be #1 in your class (I was #8) but it doesn’t hurt. Your record has to demonstrate that you consistently challenged yourself and that you excelled in those challenges. Ivy League schools are looking for people who know how to tackle problems, get things solved, and aren’t afraid of what might come their way.

Do stuff outside of class. Obvious but important. However, don’t join every club for the sake of joining a club. Top schools prefer it much more if you can show you were committed and exceeded in a few areas than you spending an hour a week in twenty different clubs. This of course flies in the face of what I did, as I wasn’t particularly talented in any one thing. Everyone at Princeton, besides being smart, tended to have one really good talent whether it be playing an instrument or being good at sports. Be well-rounded. I can’t emphasize this enough.

Standardized test are important, but they aren’t that important. This is coming from a guy who got 1560 on his SAT’s and all 5’s on the AP exams that my school saw. If you do well, great. It will just confirm the other facts. If you do poorly, you aren’t sunk yet, the rest of your application is much more important. I knew people who got 1600 and didn’t get in. I knew some people who were in the 1100’s and got in. There were probably people even lower than that. So do your best, and as long as you are OK, then don’t worry about it.

Be interesting. Don’t do what everyone else does. This will come out in your application. These people read dozens of applications a day. Believe me, they all start to sound the same. If you have some unique talent or some special life experience, make sure it comes out in your application. However don’t write about how winning the big game made your realize blah blah blah. They’ve heard it all before. At the same time, don’t be too cute either. Chances are, among the thousands of applications over a dozen years, someone has tried the same tactic. Just be honest, and yourself.

Some things that aren’t that important include your recommendations and your interview. Everyone gets a good recommendation. At worse, it can only be a small negative. The same goes for interviews. Don’t stress over them. Most high-schoolers have never been in an interview, and they are very nervous going in. Believe me, it isn’t weighted all that much. I didn’t even interview with Princeton.

That’s all it takes, and a little bit of luck. Did I miss anything? If you have questions or want to know more about my experiences, feel free to leave a comment, and I’ll try to respond.